Just read Eve's blog about the first move. It's a pretty interesting subject. I think in this new era, there's no one would think who and who make the first move. This makes me think about love.
Indeed love is a wide subject. There're many things to discuss about love. Love includes everything, the whole thing in this universe. Love. Love is a feeling? We can't see them but we can feel them. Love is such a beautiful thing that moves someone to do great things that we could ever imagined.
The greatest love that we receive is from our mother. In fact, when I think about it, first of all, we should learn to love our family. Love grows from the heart. In these days, I barely see families going out together like those days. People seems to be very busy with work and daily activies - no time for family. Well, this happened to one of my friend. His dad is suffering from lung cancer, that's already sad to hear. I was saddened when he told me what the sisters and brothers were discussing. Guess what. The sisters and brothers are discussing about the money for the medications. How sad. I was thinking, they should be discussing about the medications and doctors or even to which hospital. I was really sad, because he's one of my close friend. He has no one to turn to but me. When he told me, I can feel the sadness and disappointment that he felt in his heart. The children didn't even talk about what to feed the father and how to take care of his needs and meals. So, I told him what the father can or not to eat. This friend of mine is working abroad, so, he's really worry for the father's sickness. The funny part was, the sister and family can even travel for LEISURE to Taiwan at this point of time. I don't know what kind of thinking do they have here. I really don't know and I just scratch my head.
I always think if a man who doesn't know how to love his own parents, does he even know what is love? I usually do not believe this kind of man. Whatever is uttered from his lips will be just some entertainments for me. A man who doesn't know to care about the parents, will not care for his partner too. So, this kind of man is not for me to love.
Love is actually a deep meaning word if you happen to think about it. It's not easy to love a person and be loved. Have you ever really love a person before? Do you really know the real meaning of love? I can tell you, I sincerely or stupidly did before. Hence, I do know what love is. Love doesn't want anything in return. Love doesn't pay anything. Love is sincere. Love is to care and concern. Love is gentle. Love is patient. Love is everything that you do for another person without asking anything in return. Love is blind. Love is colourless. Love does not recognise anyone. Love is everywhere. Love is selfishless.
Love is something that you give. Luck strucks you when you're loved in return. Do you always hope to be loved in return when you give your love? I don't. I never hoped. Trust me. I never ever hoped that I'll be loved for whatever I've done or sacrifice.
Nonetheless, the most important thing is that, we need to know how to love ourselves first before knowing how to love others. By loving ourselves, we will define what love is. We learn to care about ourselves, know about our body, feelings, everything single thing about ourselves. When we know how to love ourselves, then, we should be able to love someone else.
Love is really not about money. If you have a purpose other than love, of marrying someone, then, you do not deserve love. I've a friend who's a mistress to a rich man. She told me it's not the greed of money but love. Well, in this kind of situation, it's hard to say. First, I couldn't judge her because I do not really know and I'm not in her shoe. Looking at what she has done for him, I can sense it's all about love. What about the man? The man showers her with all kinds of gifts. Does the man love her? I think it's a bit of selfish quality instead. Is this kind of relationship a mature and real, true love? I don't know. Maybe as long as both party are happy and satisfy. I remembered there was once I asked her, eventhough it's a painful question, "In your situation, how do you define your love for him? How do you know whether he loves you? Obviously, his love for you is halved. Are you really happy and satisfied in this kind of relationship?" She simply answered me, "I don't know what true love is. I just know that I want to be with him and I'll accept whatever the consequences are. I miss him whenever he's not around. I miss his smiles, laughs and everything. I just want to hug him whenever I see him. I appreciate every moment that I spend with him." That answers really touched me. I could see how much she loves and the sacrifices that she made for him. So, is that true love? Is true love is being loved by both parties? It confuses me now. Would you make such sacrifice for someone you love? Would you ever do that? I don't know. I might, I guess.
I've learned from my past. I'd love someone better now because I truly understand the true meaning of love. Eversince from my last breakup, I haven't start to have someone to love yet. Maybe there's someone I like to be more than a friend, but, that does not blossom to love. It's hard to find someone to love and be loved. I think I just don't find One but if there's a fate, he'll come for me? I don't really know. But, right now, I've more work to do rather than sitting down and waiting for my One to come. One thing for sure, I'll love more and better in the future. I've learnt my lessons. Got enough of it....
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