Thursday, November 23, 2006

A Friend in need is a Friend indeed

While I was busy thinking about the presentation slides for my brother's wedding dinner...I called a few friends and asked about the slides - whether can be changed to DVD or stuffs like that, because the stupid restaurant is able to play DVD only. So, I've asked a few CLOSE friends. What they told me was like, "oh, I think you better go to the photo shop and ask. I've no idea. Hey, let me call you when I'm free". So, I was thinking that they'll call back. But, they didn't. It's okay. Some even said, "Oh, I don't know. The wedding shop did everything for me. So, I know nothing" and full stop. That's it, man. I was hoping that they at least, could lend a hand and try to ask their friends. Well, of course, I was disappointed - maybe because I hoped. So, hopes actually bring disappointment. I adopt this thought since long time ago, yet, I'm still hoping....for something else. I'm just a normal human.

So, talking about friends. I always hear, A friend in need is a friend indeed. This saying is so true. I helped some of them during their wedding days. Well, it's not that I'm calculative, but, sometimes, there're just many kinds of people. Of course, I won't blame them for their BUSY work....it's okay. I don't mind actually. I can do it myself too.

In fact, I've many friends but only a few true ones - whom I can recognise them as buddies, REAL buddies. They are the one who stood by me when I'm in need and supported me when I'm really down. Besides, they are the ones who gave me really comfortable hugs when I need them. I'm so glad that I found them in my life, colorful one! Friends are really important in my life. Well, actually, don't you think that we don't really need a lot of friends, but, just a few good ones are enough? Yeah...sometimes, I do think that way.

So, if you have some real good friends, do treasure them. It's hard to find good friends nowadays...don't you think the same? Especially, friends of 10 over years. It's difficult to maintain a friendship of over 10 years. I'm glad that I've have a few of them - I'm glad that I've them in my life too! ;)

I found this on the internet and would like share....
A REAL FRIEND

A friend has never seen you cry
A real friend has shoulders soggy from your tears

A friend thinks no friendship after an argument
A real friend's friendship grows stronger after a fight

A friend hates being disturbed
A real friend will be ever ready to lend a hand

A friend,when visiting,acts like a guest
A real friend makes themselves at home comfortably

A friend hopes for something in return of their help
A real friend sacrifies life for friendship

A friend expects you to be always there for them
A real friend expects to be with you always

Don't you agree? I'm very much agree with this..... ;)

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