A project. Yeah...hahaha...I actually started a project few months ago. Studying about people's behaviour, characters, reactions and attitudes towards life. I created something on purpose - just to see their reactions. It started out great.
Whenever I finished with them, I'll write down every one of my actions, what I said to them, what I did to them and their reactions! It looks like a crazy thing to do or physchotic or even creepy you might say about me. Trust me, when you do it, you'll learn whole lots of things and it's exciting. You'll learn different kinds of interests and acquire many kinds of knowledge that you'll never expected and could ever think of! It'll help you to understand about human's behaviour and therefore you can enhance your relationship with anyone.
The results that I've collected was pretty normal at first till I met a unique human, I supposed. He was really weird at my first thought. Maybe not weird, just different from others. He gave me different kind of reactions, facial expressions, etc. His behaviour towards life is just like numb but full of surprises. He's just different. He seems to imitate what I did to him.
So, I decided to give it a try. Yes. To know him better. I discovered that there are people who can be so quiet and really have nothing to say, unless you start the converstion. I think this man doesn't acquire any communication skills at all or really poor in his social skills. I don't know, maybe he's just testing me, just like me. But, the way he speaks, gosh...really straightforward, right to the point. He really speaks whatever is on his mind. Normally, we would rather think about it before pointing it out, just not to offend others. This unique man is a man who would kill whatever topics. There's something interesting here. When he kill the topic, you'll have to save it by turning it around, slap it to his face and sweep him away! Then, you'll be rewarded by a charming smile...because he lose. hahahaha... Trust me. It's really fun. It's an amusement instead.
At first, he tends to be closer only to himself, keeping everything to himself. Later on, he started to open up. I think it was because I've successfully convince him and dig the deeper side of him by understanding just a small part of him. He tells me that he's weird in the eyes of his friends. I always denied it, just to make him feel better and to convince him that he's not weird at all, I supposed. To me, he's not weird but just different.
I think it's all because of the way he was brought up. He's always in his own world. Sometimes, I doubt whether he has friends. He said yes. That's not strange though. Everyone should have their own friends. I think he's a nerd. Somehow, he's attractive, in the sense of the way he speaks - calm and slow, very intellectual at a point of time, and childish at another point of time. He apparently thinks faster than speaks. Really. I can tell whether a person is thinking when he/she speaks by looking at his/her facial expressions sometimes.
Looking at his body language, I could see that he's lacking self-confidence but a very egoistic person. I could tell that he's hiding his weakness and trying to impress the people in his life. He tends to be quiet but I knew he wants to be sociable. It's just that he can't do it because he's lacking the self-confidence. He keeps everything private to himself. He might open up to someone who's close to him. Nonetheless, he's talkative to me. Maybe, we're sharing same interests.
His responses are different all the times and normally, he doesn't response that fast. Slow and steady. This shows he's pretty a deep thinker. I admire the slowness and the steadiness of his speech - shows this is a matured person and thinks before he speaks. This is what I should learn and practise. The most impressive part is, he doesn't impress or say something nice in purpose just to please you. There's pros and cons for this kind of person. He's honest enough but might offend others for being too straightforward in his speech. Or worse, he's just pretending, but I doubt it.
I could see that he's learning from me too, of course the good ones, I bet. hehehe.... well, I'm glad to meet him. It's like we're learning and picking up the good things in each other. Besides, I think we're actually exchanging the cultures that we have. I have never hanged out with him before. We met just for dinner, that's the only time we have, our nature of job. I need to hang out more often to study clearly about this person. Maybe, he'll turn out to be a different person in the afternoon. Interesting, though. I'll continue to write if there's any new discoveries.... Don't you think it's interesting? ;)
